Time for you to listen to this

I woke up one day, and I was a father. Have you ever done that? Sure you haven't. You probably never even seen a baby other than in a Pixar movie. Yeah sure you think they are cute but have you ever held one with the care like if you were holding the Monalisa and with the purest love you're ever felt? No?! than trust me you have no clue!
No stay don't go you will get there, I promise. Let me just tell you what it means to become a Papa'. It's the best, and you would never be able to look back and say how was it before this? Guess why? You don't want to? Cheese you say! Shut up and listen I say.
It starts with the smell dude that is everywhere clothing, beard, wife; I mean you name it. It is like every smell you love on the planet is combined to create perfection. I swear at one point I thought my son smelled like vanilla cupcakes, no joke.
Laugh go ahead, but you will see. When he says to you the four magic letters P A P A, your heart will melt trust me it does not even need to be looking at you. No, he could look at a dump truck and say it, and you are like "awwwww." 
Hey I know how it sounds I am the saying it. but it is another level. I was warned many times just like I am doing with you. But nobody can put precisely a finger on it because you will only be able to understand it. I know when I should be stopping right?!
This was not all to warn you about fatherhood or to inspire you in that direction. God no you are not ready, no offense. This conversation is to remind you that there is more!! More at the end of the tunnel. Today you are Down "Giancarlo Mio," but I swear the light will shine brightly in a way you cannot comprehend!
You will have a son and a wife that will wrap you in comfort and love as long as you want it, wipe the tears my friend who does not like does not know you; because who does love's you, and it comes pretty easy for them so start focusing on that. Let this be your the last tear you will shed, let this be your last frown in your life. I know its hard to see the light but "Patients are the virtue of the gods" you are used to saying well I say it to you today. Stay focused keep your Eye on the Ball and do not ever forget the love around you!!
Future you out!! mike drop